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  • Writer's pictureJamie Bates

What If You Got What You’re Asking For?

Updated: Feb 11, 2020

What if you got exactly what you wanted? Would that create your happiness? Your joy? Or does none of that really even matter?

One of the things I do often with my clients is create exactly what they have been looking for and you know what? It doesn’t always lead to happiness. True happiness comes from within. It comes from living in the alignment with who you be. Nothing outside of you can create that happiness inside of you.

This is a hard concept to grasp. There are many things we love about where we are that we don’t like to admit. And there are many things we aren't willing to part with.

We often think that having a new car, new home, new man, will “fix” our problems when in all reality, we need to “fix” what we don’t like about ourselves. We also need to be clear about what we do love? Are you addicted to the chase? Do you love the trauma drama? What if that is ok? What if there is no wrongness is anything you desire, only choice.

Stop searching outside of you for what you desire and create it within yourself. Watch your world transform to match.

About the author

Jamie Bates is a consciousness facilitator, author, podcast host, wife, mother, empath, and energy healer. Jamie's podcast, Expand Your Reality offers a wide variety of tools and healing processes that are also found in her many workshops and online programs. Check them all out at


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