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  • Writer's pictureJamie Bates

The Greatest Gift You Can Give To Someone

As we approach the gift giving season I am reminded that there is something we can gift others that creates and expands more than we could ever imagine possible.

This gift expands our beings.

This gift creates ripples of change.

This gift creates space and consciousness.

This gift can be the greatest gift you yourself can offer others and this world. What is it you might ask?

It is the gift of allowance. In the gift of allowance you get too:

  1. Stop making other people wrong. When you stop perpetrating wrongness it allows people to stop upholding it. It’s like, when you stop projecting energy, the energy restriction fails. When that happens it allows for new possibilities.

  2. Stop upholding responsibility for other people. Much of what keeps you looping in no change is the constant figuring out what other people are doing and choosing and deciding if their choices are good or bad. Stop upholding that. Worry about you.

  3. Release yourself from the paradigms of judgement. When you no longer have to judge others you set them and yourself free.

  4. You get to choose freedom and joy! When you are in allowance of others you do finally get to chose freedom greater than you could ever imagine possible.

What if you decided today was the day you started gifting others with allowance? The reality is, what other people do, be or choose speaks about who they be, not you. Stop internalizing other peoples choices and find the space of allowance in you.

About the author

Jamie Bates is a consciousness facilitator, author, podcast host, wife, mother, empath, and energy healer. Jamie's podcast, Expand Your Reality offers a wide variety of tools and healing processes that are also found in her many workshops and online programs. Check them all out at


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