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  • Writer's pictureJamie Bates

No Ones Fault But My Own.

Updated: Feb 11, 2020

If life isn’t showing up for me the way I would like it to be, it’s no one fault but my own.

If I’m feeling down and low, no one can change that but me.

No one has the power or control in my life to create anything.

Nothing that I am experiencing is the result of someone else’s choices.

If I am feeling frustrated and upset with what is going on, I am the sole keeper of change.

I am the only one capable of creating something different.

No amount of blame or shame will change how someone else showed up for me.

No projection or expectation will create the desired outcome I desire for my life, so why do I still get caught up in making someone else wrong for what is showing up?

I am the only one in control of what happens in my life.

I am the sole creator of my failures and my success.

If I desire to have something else to show up, I must show up for me and choose to create it.

No one's coming to save me.... I have to save myself.

This is my Universe, I get to decide.

About the author

Jamie Bates is a consciousness facilitator, author, podcast host, wife, mother, empath, and energy healer. Jamie's podcast, Expand Your Reality offers a wide variety of tools and healing processes that are also found in her many workshops and online programs. Check them all out at


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