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  • Writer's pictureJamie Bates

Make The Choice…. Why Making A Choice Is So Vital

Updated: Sep 5, 2021

Choice is your most powerful resource.

When you make a choice the universe conspires with you to make it happen.

The only thing we have any power or control over is ourselves. When we choose for ourselves we become creators in our own reality. When we allow ourselves to step fully into our choice we energetically project that frequency telling the universe our deepest desires and the universe conspires with us to make that happen.

If a safe house is what you desire to have, you stand fully in the energy of having a safe house. You surrender too and clear the head noise that says:

“You will never find a safe house” or “you will never be able to afford a safe house.” When you allow those thoughts a place in your space you‘re sending mixed signals.

One moment your saying:

Please give me a safe place to live and the next second your saying- but I could never afford that. And the universe is saying….

Umm 🤔 what do I do here? Do I give her a safe place? Or do I keep her in lack?

And then you are wishy washy back and forth.

Saying I desire this- but I don’t deserve it.

I desire this- but I can’t afford it.

I desire this- but it will never happen.

And the universe is like…….


What in the world am I supposed to do with this????

And then nothing happens.

Nothing moves because you are all in all that back and forth and not standing in the energy of what you desire.

When you live in worry about how things will work out you sever your connection to the abundance this world has to offer you.

When you‘re always questioning if you will have money or are worthy and deserving of a safe home, or food to eat or getting your desires met you are not choosing anything. You are worrying and living in lack. And that is exactly what the universe brings you, more things to worry about and more lack showing up around you.

Breathe in the space of desire.

Give yourself the space to make choices about what you desire without looping back into lack. If you can’t figure out how to stop looping in lack….

This is where the conscious empath tools come in! They give you tools and processes to release the old lack paradigms and embrace the space of possibilities! There are tons of free resources available in the group and on my podcast.

Consciousness clearings is what we have been talking about this week in the group. This is just one of the tools available that help you break the looping cycle of limiting mindset so you can step into the ease of being here and the divine flow of possibilities and desires available to you.

If you have the desire for something you have the capacity to create it.

The trick is to release the noise after you speak your desires and stand fully in the presence of manifestation of it.

Now let's take things people like to choose for others, like world peace. Sure that’s great. But the thing is, we don’t get to make choices for others. In order to have world peace we assume everyone desires world peace as we see it. Whatever our definition of peace maybe.

We don’t get to make choices for others ever. And when we project our own desires on others and uphold energies of expectations or sadness because we don’t see what it is we desire we become part of the problem.

Now I am definitely not trying to make anyone wrong here in any, way shape or form. And I understand your desire to want this world to show up a certain way. Believe me I get it! I too wanted to save the planet for most of my life. But consciousness taught me that to save the world I must first start with myself.

And it allowed me to understand that everyone’s path is different. Some people just live in struggle and lack. That’s their path, their lesson. And me trying to force them into a different choice does nothing but create chaos in my life. But me giving them space without making them wrong- that’s where the magic is!

And when you are so done living in chaos you understand that you only get to choose for you. No one else. And what’s best for you doesn’t mean it’s the best for others. And that is actually okay!

I have learned me being connected to my own frequency and vibration heals my frequency. It gives me space and possibility beyond anything I have ever imagined. And it allows me to be space and gift others without expectation.

So as you go about your day today watch what you are choosing.

Ask yourself:

Am I choosing this for me?

Or someone else?

Know that when you make a choice for yourself and firmly stand in it the universe will conspire to make that happen for you.

Lay worry and stress down and give the universe the option to provide for you without you figuring it out.

You are worthy and deserving of everything you desire…..

About the author

Jamie Bates is a consciousness facilitator, author, podcast host, wife, mother, empath, and energy healer. Jamie's podcast, Expand Your Reality offers a wide variety of tools and healing processes that are also found in her many workshops and online programs. Check them all out at


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